婚姻，就是一起经历生命

油画创作有点像是在画布上探险，其中乐趣与危险常常并存！

用刮刀在旧画布上画，拿妻子戏水的照片作参考。这几年对爱情和婚姻的感受和这张油画颇像，三言两语很难描述的清楚。尽管有些粗糙，也不想去修饰它，好像也没有这个必要，自我感觉良好就停下来了！非常抱歉的是委屈了妻子，在各个方面，她都作出了巨大的牺牲，非常感谢她对家庭的付出！

婚姻是没有硝烟的战场，如果我们不学习彼此相爱，就会互相甩锅，彼此为仇！创世纪中的亚当夏娃如此，现在的我们也不例外！疫情期间的各国政府官员就更不用说了！互相推诿和指责也在我们中间爆发。感恩的是，我们决定早上一起学习圣经，相互的撕咬变成了互相的体恤，彼此的鼓励，彼此的饶恕。罪一直潜伏在我们身边，一掉以轻心，它就悄悄逼近。我们与生俱来的罪性，常常让我们看到别人的不足，骄傲的自以为义！我们不想这样，可惜我们就是这样的。

我们犹如刚出埃及的以色列民，虽然微不足道，可怜可恨之处颇多，但他依然不断用恩典和真理浇灌我们。前路没有一帆风顺，依然起伏跌宕，唯愿我们在他的爱中，让婚姻经历生命的成长，彼此同心协力的战斗！

您的赞赏，分享和指教都是我需要的！和您一样，我也期待一点一点的努力，能做的更好！

Painting compositionjust likeexpedition,itisbothfunanddangerous!

Thisoneonanusedcanvaswithscrapers, I wastakingmy wife’s pictureplayingwaterasa reference. It isverysimilarwithmyfeelingstolove andmarriageforrecent years.Hardlyfor me todescribedit clearly in a few words.Itlooksrough,but idon'twant tomodify it.Itiswhatitis.Pretty muchsorry formy wife,whohas sacrificeda lotin everyaspects,andthankforhergreat contributions to ourfamily.

Marriage is a battlefield without smoke.If we didn't learn to love each other,we would shift responsibility,even moreto hate each other.So did Adamand Eve inGenesis,we are not exceptional,noteven lessofficialsfrom differentcountriesduring theepidemic.The buck-passing hasbrokenout alsobetweenus.It isso thankfulthatwe decidedto studytheBibletogetherinthemornings,whichturnsbiting each other intocompassion,encouragement, and forgivinginstead.Since sinhas beencrouchingatthe door,once weignore it,whichdesires tohaveus!Weoftenfindsomeotherones’faults,andself-righteousness,which seemsoursinfromnature.Wedon't want to belikethis，however,wejustdid it.

We are no difference withisraelitesfromExodus.We are nothing,andhave so manydisobedience，butHISlove and truthhavebeenwateringus.There will never besmooth life,andbumpinesswouldbeverycommon.May welive inHis love to experience the growth of marriage, and tofight shoulder to shoulder!

Any advice,commentora littlerewardarewanted!lookingforwardtodoing betterasyou wish.